38. K'uei / Opposition

This hexagram is composed of the trigram Li above, i.e., flame,
which burns
upward, and Tui below, i.e., the lake, which seeps downward. These
two
movements are indirect contrast. Furthermore, LI is the second daughter
and
Tui the youngest daughter, and although they live in the same house
they
belong to different men; hence their wills are not the same but
are
divergently directed.
THE JUDGMENT
OPPOSITION. In small matters, good fortune.
When people live in opposition and estrangement they cannot carry
out a
great undertaking in common; their points of view diverge too widely.
In
such circumstances one should above all not proceed brusquely, for
that
would only increase the existing opposition; instead, one should
limit oneself
to producing gradual effects in small matters. Here success can
still be
expected, because the situation is such that the opposition does
not preclude
all agreement.
In general, opposition appears as an obstruction, but when it represents
polarity within a comprehensive whole, it has also its useful and
important
functions. The oppositions of heaven and earth, spirit and nature,
man and
woman, when reconciled, bring about the creation and reproduction
of life.
In the world of visible things, the principle of opposites makes
possible the
differentiation by categories through which order is brought into
the world.
THE IMAGE
Above, fire; below. The lake.
The image of OPPOSITION.
Thus amid all fellowship
The superior man retains his individuality.
The two elements, fire and water, never mingle but even when in
contact
retain their own natures. So the sutured man is never led into baseness
or
vulgarity through intercourse or community of interests with persons
of
another sort; regardless of all commingling, he will always preserve
his
individuality.
THE LINES
Nine at the beginning means:
Remorse disappears.
If you lose your horse, do not run after it;
It will come back of its own accord.
When you see evil people,
Guard yourself against mistakes.
Even in times when oppositions prevail, mistakes can be avoided,
so that
remorse disappears. When opposition begins to manifest itself, a
man must
not try to bring about unity by force, for by so doing he would
only achieve
the contrary, just as a horse goes farther and farther away if one
runs after it.
It it is one's won horse, one can safely let it go; it will come
back of its own
accord. So too when someone who belongs with us is momentarily estranged
because of a misunderstanding, he will return of his own accord
if we leave
matters to him. One the other hand, it is well to be cautious when
evil men
who do not belong with us force themselves upon us, again as the
result of a
misunderstanding. Here the important thing is to avoid mistakes.
We must
not try to shake off these evil men by force; this would give rise
to real
hostility. We must simply endure them. They will eventually withdraw
of
their own accord.
Nine in the second place means:
One meets his lord in a narrow street.
No blame.
As a result of misunderstandings, it has become impossible for
people who by
nature belong together to meet in the correct way. This being so,
an accidental
meeting under informal circumstances may serve the purpose, provided
there is an inner affinity between them.
Six in the third place means:
One sees the wagon dragged back,
The oxen halted,
A man's hair and nose cut off.
Not a good beginning, but a good end.
Often it seems tot a man as though everything were conspiring against
him.
He sees himself checked and hindered in his progress, insulted and
dishonored. However, he must not let himself be misled; despite
this
opposition, he must cleave to the man with whom he knows he belongs.
Thus, notwithstanding the bad beginning, the matter will end well.
Nine in the fourth place means:
Isolated through opposition,
One meets a like-minded man
With whom one can associate in good faith.
Despite the danger, no blame.
If a man finds himself in a company of people from whom he is separated
by
an inner opposition, he becomes isolated. But if in such a situation
a man
meets someone who fundamentally by the very law of his being, is
kin to
him, and whom he can trust completely, he overcomes all the dangers
of
isolation. His will achieves its aim, and he becomes free of faults.
Six in the fifth place means:
Remorse disappears.
The companion bits his way through the wrappings.
If one goes to him,
How could it be a mistake?
Coming upon a sincere man, one fails to recognize him at first
because of the
general estrangement. However, he bites his way through the wrappings
that
are causing the separation. When such a companion thus reveals himself
in
his true character, it is one's duty to go to meet him and to work
with him.
Nine at the top means:
Isolated through opposition,
One sees one's companion as a pig covered with dirt,
As a wagon full of devils.
First one draws a bow against him,
then one lays the bow aside.
He is not a robber; he will woo at the right time.
As one goes, rain falls; then good fortune comes.
Here the isolation is due to misunderstanding; it is brought about
not by
outer circumstances but by inner conditions. A man misjudges his
best
friends, taking them to be as unclean as a dirty pig in and as dangerous
as a
wagon full of devils. He adopts an attitude of defense. But in the
end,
realizing his mistake, he lays aside the bow, perceiving that the
other is
approaching with the best intentions for the purpose of close union.
Thus the
tension is relieved. The union resolves the tension, just as falling
rain
relieves the sultriness preceding a thunderstorm. All goes well,
for just when
opposition reaches its climax it changes over to its antithesis.